Deerwood Lavender Lady - leaves

almost forgot, yet here are the leaves:

click on the image if it's too small for you...

Deerwood Lavender Lady
or
Deerwood Lavender Lad?

Deerwood Lavender Lady - flower

this one is from Faye Brawner's Deerwood collection. i bought it as "Deerwood Lavender Lady" but have as yet not found any information about it, so i suspect that it is actually "Deerwood Lavender Lad"
what say ye???
hmmm... guess i should take a picture of the leaves and upload it so that any one with an opinion will have more to decide upon... later...